When the universe confirms you are doin okay… You listen.

It’s been a long road down the probate trail and by no means is it over, but the good news is, we are approaching completion.

The complex system of transferring assets according to laws and cooperating with people who only have their self interests in mind is exhausting. If ever there was a need for a plan it’s after death… I have never been busier trying to keep order to chaos.

In general life we are constantly seeking confirmation for our biases. One major item of confirmation bias is “am I doing the right thing”, we seek to justify the answer “yes” by carefully building our own case.  We look for clues and keep track of the reinforcing moments particularly in ambiguous ways. 

I got a fortune cookie that said, this too shall pass but did I care, no, I kept looking until I found the one that reinforced my beliefs…and yes I do think it’s telling to the present situation but, it nevertheless was used to appease my needs.  

Sometimes we need just a moment to tell ourselves that after all we’ve done and all the trials we were right, we won and we will prevail! Some of us seek that through telling others our story, and waiting for their response. However, there are a select few of us that just look for the answer within ourselves. 

We seem to reflect on our work and our present situation as we see fit. 

However every now and then we get honest reinforcement that we have been on the right track and we have to accept that answer. Sometimes we believe it’s from our angels and other times it’s from another source but when the universe speaks we must listen.

So whatever you hear, if it’s a yes or no… It’s an answer and you may pick and choose the ones you listen to but know that there is always truth in your path.


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Every Now and Then

Every day is something new. We change, embrace, create, repeat. We become more of what we are as we go! Staying inspired through life has kept things interesting for me. I grew up an old child of an intact marriage, in CT. Well yes, I guess that sounds perfect on paper, but it’s not, and nothing is. I originally started this blog as a DIY event page, which I quickly realized was not “it”... Then I realized I love designing spaces but what if I could do whatever I wanted as my job? Wow I’m such a millennial... so I just want what every girl wants, travel, love and freedom of speech. Well it’s basically a full spectrum of emotions, likes, inspirations and motivations. I assure you after reading my blog you will realize the bio is unnecessary... Look for inspiration and then create your own!

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